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The Dislike of Marriage with Women from the People of the Book -nowadays-


The Dislike of Marriage with Women from the People of the Book

In the name of Allah the Most Beneficent Most Merciful,

The Dislike of Marriage with Women from the People of the Book -nowadays- and its Evil Consequences
by Sheikh ‘Abdul ‘Azeez bin Baaz -may Allah have mercy upon him- [Reference below]:

The Imaam, the Father Sheikh ‘Abdul ‘Azeez bin ‘Abdillah bin Baaz -may Allahs mercy be upon him- says:

Marriage with other than Muslim Women contains in it elaboretness. [TN: It's not as simple as we think. And the Sheikh will explain bi ithnillah]. Idolatresses, Communist and likewise Buddhist Women are not permissible to marry. As for chaste women from the People of the Book who are known for having chastity, decency and being distant from the avenues of fornication, they are considered the chaste ones.

So it is permissible for a Muslim Man to marry a chaste woman (from the People of the Book). However he leaves off that which is more virtuous and foremost and what is farther away from evil (i.e. marrying the Muslimah).

Because marrying this women could perhaps lead him to becoming a Christian (or Jew) -and Allahs refuge is sought- or possibly lead the children to becoming Christians (or Jews). And this is the reason why ‘Umar and a group from the Salaf disliked that (type of marriage although it is permitted) fearing for that person the evil consequences behind it. Nontheless the origin is that it is halaal (lawful).

Just as He the Most High and Exalted says in His Noble Book in Surah al-Maaidah: {Made lawful to you today are At-Tayyibat [all kinds of Hall foods, which Allh has made lawful (meat of slaughtered eatable animals, milk products, fats, vegetables and fruits). The food of the people of the Scripture (Jews and Christians) is lawful to you and yours is lawful to them. (Lawful to you in marriage) are chaste women from the believers and chaste women from those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) before your time, when you have given their due Mahr, desiring chastity (i.e. taking them in legal wedlock) not committing illegal sexual intercourse nor taking them as girl-friends.}5:5

Thus Allah has permitted marriage to those women from the People of the Book (who are chaste). And a Muhsanah is one who is free, chaste and known (to the people) for chastity and decency. So when is this known from her?! When is it known that she is chaste in (places like) America or England or in any place?! This is petrifyingly dangerous. The advice is that he (the Muslim Man) should not marry her (the disbelieving women from the People of the Book) But if you find a chaste woman (from amongst them) who her chastity can be testified to then it is permissible to do so, yet he leaves off what is better (i.e. a Muslimah).

Because it is a means for him becoming a Christian (or Jew) due to his love for her or his children after him whether it be during his lifetime or after his death.

And there is no might or power except with Allah!

And may peace and blessings be upon our Prophet Muhammad, his family and companions.

Taken from: http://sahab.net/home/index.php?Site=News&Show=885

Translated by: Abu Fouzaan Qaasim

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Categories: Family, Women
  1. aishah
    June 8, 2010 at 2:34 AM | #1

    astagfiruallah,
    may Allah (swt) forgive us for our ignorance. a woman who is a believer and fears allah(swt)is very different than the woman who believes in allah but does not fear Him. i know that there are sisters that are born muslims but they are ignorant in their religion and there a women that allah (swt) guided to islam. i embraced islam through the guidence of allah (swt) but i was raised with values and morals. the only thing was that i was practicing the wrong religion. it is true.
    it is better to marry a believing woman who fears allah than a none believer. may allah (swt) guide us always.
    the sisters that u are talking about-they are sisters that don’t have noor and are ignorant in their religion. so that why it is important to give dawa to our muslim brothers and sisters because there are a lot of them these days and many teach the religion wrong. they teach culture and tradition instead of really teaching the truth about islam and what is based on the teachings of the quran and hadith.

  2. TheAuthenticBase
    March 12, 2010 at 1:23 PM | #2

    assalaam o alaykum,

    just a thought:

    the ayah says: “(Lawful to you in marriage) are CHASTE women from the believers and CHASTE women from those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians)”

    So i guess our women who arent chaste (which r the majority who r living here in the west- plz dnt deny it, we al know it’s true – our women r beheving like these kuffaar women!) r as undesirable for us muslim men just like the unchaste women from the ppl of the bok right?

    • March 13, 2010 at 7:59 PM | #3

      wa laikum assalam wa rahmatullah

      unchaste women are not permissibe for the believer
      the post is talking about the preference of the chaste women from muslims

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